The Most Common Divorce Myths and Misconceptions
People who are going through their first divorce never quite know exactly what to expect. We may know others who have gone through the process, but every divorce is different and there are many types of challenges that may arise.
There are a number of myths and misconceptions surrounding the divorce process that may make individuals even more anxious than they already would be. Here are a few of those myths:
- Visitation can be denied. Just because a former partner falls behind on child support payments does not mean he or she may be denied visitation access. Visitation and child support are entirely separate issues.
- Divorce itself can be denied. Although you do need to file a divorce petition with a judge, the judge cannot deny your request. There are certain steps you will have to go through, but if you want a divorce, you will most likely get it.
- Mothers always get custody. While it is true that more mothers get primary custody than fathers, this is not because of any inherent bias in the law. The judge will give custody to whichever parent is deemed more fit to have full or primary custody of the children.
- Child support may be avoided. Every child has a right to financial support. You cannot avoid this responsibility, and attempting to do so could land you in serious legal and financial trouble.
- Adultery drastically affects a divorce outcome. Although cheating on a spouse could lead to the divorce happening in the first place, it does not mean you are more likely to lose out during the division of marital assets and property.
- Assets will be split down the middle. Assets are split equitably — not necessarily equally. There are many factors judges consider when it comes to dividing property, and in this case, “fair” is not necessarily “equal.”
If you have any questions about the divorce process or would like to receive skilled representation, consult an experienced Long Island family law attorney at Bryan L. Salamone & Associates today.