Scenes of wildfires throughout Southern California have shocked and horrified people around the world. Blazes compounded by dry weather have resulted in dozens of deaths and billions of dollars in property damage. Clearing out the debris and rebuilding what’s been lost is expected to take several years. Some unexpected consequences of this tragedy might change lives forever.
Hurricanes, wildfires, earthquakes and other leave more than just physical devastation in their wake—they can also cause emotional turmoil that reshapes relationships. Studies have shown that divorce rates often rise following major catastrophic events. As people re-evaluate their lives, relationships and long-term happiness. Along with a renewed focus on what matters most to them, the stress of recovery, financial hardship and emotional trauma can put immense pressure on marriages.
A review of divorce rates in the year following a deadly hurricane in South Carolina showed a sharp increase in counties directly affected by the storm, versus similarly situated communities outside the hurricane’s path. This was not the only shift in marriage-related behavior following the catastrophic event. The marriage rate also surged in areas hit by the hurricane.
Even strong relationships are tested under such extreme stress. For couples already experiencing marital difficulties, the added pressure can be the tipping point toward divorce. Couples often cope with stress in different ways. Some may turn to their spouse for support, while others shut down emotionally or seek comfort elsewhere. Disasters can magnify incompatibilities, making it clear that the couple is no longer aligned in how they handle life’s challenges.
After a disaster, financial burdens can increase dramatically, leading to conflicts over how to rebuild, whether to relocate or how to manage insurance claims. If financial stress was already present, the added strain can push couples over the edge.
Major catastrophes with widespread damage are not the only traumatic events that can lead to divorce. Medical problems, extensive home repairs, unexpected firings and other sudden crises that afflict a household could also push a marital relationship to the brink. If you’re divorcing while still dealing with the effects of a shared trauma, you probably want to avoid a high-tension legal process.
As the Long Island divorce leader, Bryan L. Salamone & Associates, P.C. focuses on providing legal guidance that meets each client’s specific needs. This might include addressing parenting and financial issues through mediation, rather than fighting it out in court. For an appointment with an accomplished New York lawyer to discuss your particular situation, please call 631-388-6009 or contact us online.